I read The Practicing Mind a while ago, and although I don’t remember every chapter, the essence of the book stayed with me. These are the ideas I want to carry forward in my work, running, and life. 1. Mastery is built in the present moment The book emphasizes a counterintuitive truth: You only improve when your attention is on the action you're doing right now. Not on the result. Not on where you "should" be. Only on the practice. This is freeing, because it shifts the mindset from pressure to presence. 2. The “Process Mind” Instead of thinking: “I need to finish this module.” “I need to run faster.” “I should be better by now.” Shift to: “Let me do the next step well.” A calm, process-driven mind creates better results with less stress. 3. Judgement slows you down Self-criticism drains focus. Neutral observation improves focus. The book says: “Notice, don’t judge.” If you missed a run, made a mistake in code, or are behind schedule —...
Balancing life sometimes feels like running a marathon — literally and emotionally. As a long-distance runner, I’ve learned to push through discomfort on the road. But real life often feels like a different kind of endurance race — juggling a full-time job coding complex systems, being a father of two, caring for my mother’s treatment, managing a home, and trying to find peace in a not-so-easy family environment. In all this, anxiety silently builds up — even when things seem fine on the outside. Recently, I picked up “Rewire Your Anxious Brain” by Nick Trenton , and it has been quietly transformative. What struck me most was how practical and compassionate the book is. It doesn’t promise instant calm but gives you tools to understand your mind — especially how thoughts and emotions feed anxiety. One technique that resonated with me was the ABCDE method : A – Adversity: Identify what triggered your anxiety. B – Belief: Recognize what you’re telling yourself about it. ...